I, too, am sorry it has come to this. Stay true to yourself and your children and fight for what is fair. You are the sane one right now in this situation. I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
I hate to ask...but please start a new thread and link up your threads when you get a chance.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thank you all for the support! I can't imagine where I'd be without it.
Job, thank you for the reminder about me being the sane one. I have to step back from time to time and remind myself not to let someone else's craziness make me crazy.