It takes two to make it work (pt. 6)

[SBJ]

You are correct. She was pushing my buttons for sure. She knows my feelings that D is not the answer, but she is hell bent on it. But, she then threw in the fact that I don't care about how "she" feels about it. I will admit that I have only thought about myself and my kids thru all of this. I do not understand her feelings on this, because we have always been against D.

How do I switch my mindset to view this more from the outside looking in rather than the PO'ed LBS?

I need to totally drop the rope at this point, finish the D paperwork, sign them, and continue to work on myself. The feeling of abandonment just hits me at times. I know I can survive w/o her, but I never thought about it, because I signed on forever. Kind of stinks.