He thinks that she is making a mistake and wants her to know that separation, divorce, doesn't have a happier ending.
So, really this is pursuing and pushing from someone else, no? And she will see it as directed by you. What is to be gained?
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This push pull is unbearable in my head. Just can't detach, too many hours in the day
Right there with you. It took me a LONG time to cross that bridge and see the light for what it truly is. One of the things that helped me most was the gym...and the punching bag. Many, many hours of exercise and hitting the bag. Did it solve my problem? No, because I didn't have a problem. It allowed me to carve out time where I emptied my mind and frustrations...and led me to realize that none of this was my fault.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
