So sorry, my friend. The unfortunate thing is that there is absolutely nothing you can do to change her mind. Nothing. Sorry to be so blunt, but it is what it is.
There is nothing to be gained by responding. Nothing. Because, your response would be based on YOUR feelings, not hers. And even if it weren't intentional, on some level responses are attempts at guilting someone into not leaving the marriage, which leads to this question - if you had to guilt someone into staying, why would you when they don't really want to be there?
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
