My neglectfulness didn't justify what she did, but put her in a position to be vulnerable to the temptation to do what she probably did. I do not take blame for her choosing to do it. I take blame for putting her in the position to be interested in doing it. It's something I have to accept to keep this from ever happening again with her or anyone else.


M: 33, W: 30 @BD
M 7, T 10
BD: Early Dec
W left: Late Dec
W got stuff: Late Jan
W sent S papers: Mid Feb
OM cnfrmd: Late Feb

Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.