Originally Posted By: NYGal
Reconciliation after an A is hard folks.


Preach.

I have seen this war play out from both sides of the line.

I sit here today, wanting nothing more than to have the chance to reconcile with my wife. But, I have already been down that road (years ans years ago) and I already know the tormenting hell that would be waiting for me on the other side of that line.

This journey for all of us is so ironic, funny and sad. Most of the folks on these boards would give their right arm for a chance at saving their marriage and family. Yet I read story after story, of people finally getting that miracle, only to find out that the worst part of their journey has just begun.


M-42
W-40
S-12
D-10
Together-13 years
Married-10 years
Separated-6/2016
ILYBINILWY-7/2016
EA-4/2016 (best guess)
PA-7/2016 (best guess)