I am so sorry for your situation. I have been dealing with a very similar situation.

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I don't have much to say other then I am truly sorry and I would never wish this upon anyone. My wife recently left about a month ago and we have been married for over 13 years. I know in my situation there's been an affair going on for almost 3 years so that makes it very difficult to even try to reconcile. I will say that you need to take care of yourself. Make sure you're eating, getting exercise and doing the best to get sleep. It will get easier but it is difficult right now. I know the first couple weeks for me I was in a state of shock. I still hurt quite a bit now but I'm actually able to live my life. I hope someday that I can reconcile with my wife but unfortunately that is not an option right now. All I can do is work on myself. I will lift you up in my prayers.


Me 38, Her 40
T-14, M-13, No kids
BD-1 4/14- EA/PA
BD-2 10/14- EA
BD-3 2/17- EA/PA
W Moves out 2.10.17 in with AP
W Served D papers 3.6.17
Divorce Final- 5.23.17