You are super frustrated, angry...it's totally unfair that your W can unilaterally end your M. I get it. I feel the same way. But you will be okay no matter what. God loves you and has a plan for your life. It may be different that what you expected so you've got to cling to your faith. Pray, pray, pray, vent, vent, vent...and let go of your W and your M. This too is fighting for it. What you are doing now isn't working so you need to try something different. The more you fight and delay the more your W digs her heels in. I gave my W everything she needs to file in early January and left it in her court...and she hasn't. This is a tragedy...accept and grieve...and then move forward.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
