My wife left two days before our fifth wedding anniversary. Packed up her things and most our home - even took most of the wedding pictures (just left the ones with my family in them!) She waited for me to get home from work to do it and was quite emotionless while doing this. Said it was her decision, that she hasn't been happy for too long, the good memories have faded, she was drained and had nothing to give, it's too late, etc. After the initial shock wore off, I went it to panic mode. I kept saying give us more time, we have been happy before, last couple of years has been a bad patch, we can make it, she needs to soften her heart so she can see how I'm changing, I love her, that this was a mistake. I asked her if she loves me and she said I love you but, she can't be with me, we would eventually end. Had a conversation with me about moving on, that I can get through this! I didn't stop her. I said I couldn't. Finally, dropped her to the taxi.
At this point, I got family involved. She spoke with my father - where she complained about mainly my quick temper and lack of social life plus all the things she said to me. My father told her I was changing & was making the effort so my she doesn't give us more time. And back to square one. I also spoke to her mother and she again complained about the same points. I still told her what I told my wife. She then kept saying this is her daughter's decision. My mother spoke with her mother and again this is her daughter's decision.
She has since dug in at her mother's home in another city. I have sent her a few messages but she reads them and doesn't respond. I also sent her a long emotional message - I decided that would be last one on my part for now. Read it but, no response. Has made her Instagram page private and even her relationship status is private on FB.
To say I'm a broken man at this moment. I'm in so much pain. I feel the person I love most in the world has done this to me. And at such a time and in such a way! It has been six days and I still can't get to grips with how she has done this. All I am asking is to give us a chance. And if she loves me, then why doesn't she want to give us time. It's like she making me out the be Satan! She can't remember any good times. It's We were going out for seven years and been married for five years.
To say I need some help is an understatement. Is all lost? Am I in denial? What should do?
Sincerely,
justbroken
Me:35 W:35 M:5 T:7 NO KIDS S: 3rd Nov 2016 to 4th Feb 2017 BD: 7th Mar 2017 GD: 6 weeks
