BluWave -- understood on the MC. I went twice with my W before I realized she was faking it and had no interest in R. So, different dynamic, but I saw some promise in it had both of us been motivated to try really hard. It was going to take a lot of visits, though, so expense is a very real consideration, too.
As I read your posts, it almost seems like your H really needs to DB, GAL and drop the rope a bit. The script has been almost completely flipped. As your standard LBH, I never really stopped to think about what it would have been like had I ever gotten to piecing; it seems incredibly difficult. Hang in there!
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)