WW with affair moved out 4+ weeks ago

[15Stang]

Thanks Cadet. I've been looking through these topics for the past 4 weeks.
The trouble with all of this is accepting the reality of the situation. Truth is I'm grieving for what I thought I had. The truth is I'm married to a person that is willing to cheat and be with another married man. She is not the person I'd choose to be with. However I believe she is a good person at heart and she is making bad choices. My longing to reconciliation is for what she 'could be'. Problem with that is I don't know who she will be.

I've been told you can't get to where you are going if you can't accept where you are at.
Thanks all,
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