Hi Coly, sorry you're having a rough time and if you don't want to see him on Thursday I think you have a couple of choices.

Firstly, you could just let him know Thursday doesn't work for you this week as you have plans...and just buy yourself a little time...there's no rush to make a decision about whether or not you want to end the arrangement.

Secondly, you could let him know that the visits aren't really working for you. And perhaps he can make other arrangements to see D if he wants to. No more than that needed IMHO.

I understand it must be difficult to be in his company given all circumstances..

Take care Coly :)x

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