Hearing the Fat Lady Sing

[Gordie]

ForGump,

You said on your other thread you have been helping XW with some of the areas where she is lacking in life skills? Was that good or bad for you? I had one of those incidents this past week where my W was asking me something she knows nothing about and then got frustrated with me when I tried to explain it to her.

Also, re physical intimacy, how are you doing managing yourself? I feel like your XW neglected you for a very long time and that can certainly cause some damage to the psyche. Are you working through these issues with a counselor or friend or someone else? Feel free to ignore if this is too intimate to answer, but have just been concerned about you given how things transpired.