My DB Coach gave me some great advice on the DB opportunities.
It was mainly ways to say "no" and stand my ground without being offensive and demonstrating that i hear and understand her opinion even though i may not agree with it.
There's DB opportunities where we agree also. Instead of just saying "I agree", i'll make her feel that it was her idea and i'll add to that idea, to show that we can collaborate on an outcome.
Really, I just need to be nice and polite - just like a business meeting.
M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6 11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing 1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break 2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing 2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process