Thank you. I'll be back later and reread this, as I need to run out the door.
Quick update : Last night H initiated R talk. It's happened several times now. Long and emotional ...
This is what it keeps coming to--he is miserable, waiting for me, and begging to go to MC. Then he says it has to come from me. Then he asks again and again. He is spinning. If he were anyone else I would send him to DB land for some 2*4s!
I'm not sure what to do. I am content with my life and my other Rs. But--the big but--is that I don't know how to accept and forgive this A so we can build something new. I have thought and processeed in every way I know how and I still feel a lack of respect for him and detached.
I'll be back later! (2*4s and advice always welcome)
Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
