Question for a friend with a wayward husband...

They are separating and staying at different places while each getting time with their kids. He's having an affair and plans on leaving his wife for the other woman. My friend is trying to detach and isnt having any relationship talks, etc.

However, her husband keeps trying to have relationship talks, during which he just talks about how they arent meant to be, he's moved on, etc. Anything but trying to fix things. They arent productive.

Should she engage in these conversations or just ask him to stop talking? What approaches have worked for others with WAHs?


M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6
11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA
Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing
1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break
2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing
2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process