In our case, we were in separate rooms - which is the norm at least in my state. No chance to talk, whatever. Remember, this is a business transaction - nothing more, nothing less. She will become someone you don't know. Just be ready. If you recall, during our mediation, she came out swinging - she tried to show staged pictures of the house; tried to prove that I was mentally unstable when in fact my lawyer had 6 text from her talking about suicide, etc.
I know you want to, but don't look for any DB stuff here. This is a whole different ball game now.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
