I have always read about how difficult piecing is. I always imagined I would like that experience. To have that power of being less invested in the relationship, whIle your partner who had greatly wronged you is fully vested and trying whatever they can do to win back your love and trust.
(Of course if your not invested, one would not even want that power I suppose).
Your sentiment seems to be a similar sentiment to that of the WAS. They view the LBS as partners who had greatly wronged them, whether it was through neglect, criticism, or negativity.
If you could go back to your husband pre BD, pre affair and give him advise on how to make his marriage work. How to rid himself of the negative feeling regarding you that he had built up, that had to have been there to make him capable of betrayal what would that advise be?
