Just wanted to let everyone know I'm good, actually I'm great! I moved to NC about three weeks ago, and I definitely found a place I belong. My new job is heads and tails better than where I was previously, I am already feel like my new place is home (something I never really felt about the apt I moved to when we separated), and I'm having a blast in the (semi) country . I'm meeting people left and right, I never realized how little I stopped and smelled the roses, I was always on a mission and had my sights on completion, and rushed through the process. Now I constantly find myself caught up in conversation with people no matter where I go, and don't get caught up with timelines. I've been getting out hiking and fishing a lot, I've met up with people and am planning follow-up outings. I was like a little kid this morning when I woke up and found it snowing outside. I've never lived somewhere it snows, and just had to get out explore.
My W and I don't talk, we haven't talked since last July (I think), other than to communicate about my son, and I'm good with that. The fact is that I don't like that I dislike her so much, but the fact is I despise who she became, but I don't have any anger towards her anymore, I just prefer not to have anything to do with her.
My last day at work everyone went out to celebrate my leaving (not like they were celebratin that I was leaving, but to wish me well) and she showed up. I thought that was pretty weird, but she sat far away from me so there wasn't awkwardness. Although at the end everyone walked up to me to wish me well, and she walked up and just kinda stood there, and then said something about going home to take son to Dr., that was a pretty awkward moment because I didn't know why she even showed up, much less what she expected me to say to her.
My son is dealing with his medical issues well, luckily it hasn't gotten him down, and we talk a lot now by phone and text. He's coming up in the summer and I'm going down during spring break to see him.
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M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
. I'm meeting people left and right, I never realized how little I stopped and smelled the roses, I was always on a mission and had my sights on completion, and rushed through the process. Now I constantly find myself caught up in conversation with people no matter where I go, and don't get caught up with timelines. I've been getting out hiking and fishing a lot, I've met up with people and am planning follow-up outings. I was like a little kid this morning when I woke up and found it snowing outside. I've never lived somewhere it snows, and just had to get out explore. 