Bon matin mon ami. Roist's list is great with the following caveat from me - #5. Hiding it from OM. I'm sorry. That's a red flag for me. I cannot put that in a positive column. At best I'd rate it neutral to negative, so on a 1-10 scale, 10 being completely positive and 1 being completely negative, and 5 being totally neutral I'd but that as a 3.5-4. Why? Because while it's nice that she's contacting you and saying all these positive things, she's clearly still potentially hedging her bets by keeping the OM in the dark.
What would it take for this to be positive in my mind? Her being honest with OM. In fairness, we don't know that she isn't being honest with him. So. I'm actually not sure if this is helpful. I think ... you are wise to keep your guard up, while sending her the best thoughts in wishes and hopes for healing in her future.
Still looking for eagles. I took the camera out of my car and found myself at the lake yesterday morning quite unexpectedly. Way down the lake there was a raptor sky dancing. It could have been a hawk, but it looked like it may have been a male eagle (they are smaller than females). Regardless, it was beautiful. Of course if I'd had the camera with the 300 zoom ... m e r d e ....
Have a beautiful day with your beautiful girls and keep doing what you're doing. xoxoxo
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
