Hey Lostini, I'm so sorry you find yourself here. You might want to look up Cherry's thread as she went through a similar thing whilst being pregnant.

I am guessing that he took the news well about how the pregnancy but how strange that you think he is still looking for OW. How do you know this? You say you have been going through this since 2013 but you are still together and you seem to still live like W and H hence your pregnant now (sorry I hope you don't mind me mentioning that). However you are thinking ahead to how you can be self sufficient (without him) once you finish college. Has he actually indicated that he wants to separate as I'm concerned that it seems you have become so negative about your sitch that separating will become a self fulfilling prophecy.


Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')