Thank you all! Yep, you're right.... I MUST stop people pleasing just to keep the peace.
I know what I need to do.
Rouky.... Ohhhh the cheese! I would be in heaven if I was in your region. I am always looking up wine and cheese tours over there! It's been a rough challenge, but it's only me against myself and if I really want a healthy lifestyle, I have to try! I actually had an unhealthy relationship with cheese. In truth, I probably consumed a pound a week!!!! Not good for my health, but it's so darn good. I used to joke that I was made of cheese!
Thank you all again. Xoxox
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16