Regarding the privacy, in H's defense I was extremely paranoid that he was cheating. Some interactions with women were genuinely innocent, others definitely crossed the line but he felt that it was okay because he didn't engage. We have a difference of opinion in engagement. It all became too blurry.
Today, pics of him with women flood my social media feed, I don't always know if it's completely innocent. When he has erased my presence physically and online, I don't feel like it's innocent. He insists that he has to control his brand--apparently pictures of me and the kids are not part of the brand, but partying is. During the first S, he professed how in love he was with the OW online, it hurt. Now, he claims he learned his lesson and nothing about his personal life should be shared. I still see him tagged in a number of pictures, and I honestly feel sorry for him. He left his family once, I took him back, and he's back at it again and ppl see. Old fans disapprove, new "younger" fans have no clue about his roots or his family.
