I am happy for you and little girl. You've got a very nice man in your life and I hope he's there for the long haul. You deserve to have a Prince Charming come in and sweep you off your feet and treat you right.
It's time to start a new thread. Please be sure to link up your old/new threads.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.