Question on detaching.

Part of detaching is to give the spouse their space. Not to pursue, etc. The other part is to let you learn to live without that person.

However, is it not good to detach from your spouse but then turn to others to fill that void? Could be family, friends, etc.?

This week, i found myself texting and IMing certain people way more than i ever did before.


M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6
11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA
Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing
1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break
2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing
2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process