It DID play a role. You have to realize this was 3 years post BD. There was a significant amount of self-improvement between these milestones. A lot took place over the course of that time.
I hope this isn't the only thing you took away from my post to you.
No, I always read your posts very thoroughly. You are one of the main ones that I look forward to hearing from. Was there something else you said that you think I should respond to?
M: 33, W: 30 @BD M 7, T 10 BD: Early Dec W left: Late Dec W got stuff: Late Jan W sent S papers: Mid Feb OM cnfrmd: Late Feb
Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.