Obviously. I don't know how to reclaim my place as Plan A, and keep it that way.
Some of it is out of your control, however be mysterious.
Men like what they can't have.
You want him to pursue you, not you pursue him.
You're right. When things went sideways, I was the initiator/pursuer. I would feel valued if he pursued me for a change. Again, this goes back to ppl vying for his time.