Hk Mate, i think Sotto , Ndy and Roist have all pjt it better than i can but i feel that its worth repeating. My big fear was EXW would want to come back but shes too stubborn. I tried NC but looked at my pbone often and missed hearing from her. I have not seen or spoken to her since xmas eve and limited texts but last sunday i got a text from her , saying she doesnt know how to fix this and ahe misses her family and home and has nothing in her life and shes sorry how ' this " had gone.
I read the text and continued with my day, i could have read this or that into the text but i have no idea of her thinking so why let it effect me.
Your asking that if your W sends subtle signs that shes reconsidering you might miss them. You wont and as an outsider reading your posts , your EXW is still deep in MLC. Consider that sbe may never recover to who she was but stays as she ow is , you deserve better. Im not saying give up hope but you need to accept that rigbt now and maybe for years to come shes not coming back. Move forward with your life , not in anyway other than whats best for Hiddy and hos kids REGARDLESS of how that effects EXW.
Again , these are my thoughts because , like many others , ive felt your pain , anger, exasperation, etc and i only truly found some peace when i let go and did things for me and mine and how that affected EXW is irrelevant.
Take care mate , this isnt easy and your kids are very lucky to have a dad like you.
