You have gotten some great advice for me so I just wanted to say that I agree with the lovely lady Vanilla. For me, I burned the bridge way early and I'm glad I did because it allowed me to see that I was better off without my ex. I realize not everyone is in that boat, but for me, I was cheated on and I wouldn't allow that to continue, so I torched that darn bridge and never looked back. And, I also agree with what Ginger and Jeep both said...you have to live like she isn't coming back and sometimes you have to burn the bridge to get the distance you need to work on YOU. And, isn't that really what is important here....working on YOU?
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
