So Confused and Conflicted (4)

[WshIKnw]

One thing that I don't discuss much on the forums, is that I was dating someone at the time. I wasn't doing it to change my sitch. I had moved on and was excited about the future. I'd be lying if I didn't admit that it didn't play a role in changing my circumstances.

So, you believe that dating did or didn't have an effect on your wife wanting to stay with you?

I don't see a problem with dating, while wanting your spouse back, as long as you make it clear to who you are dating that you want your spouse back. The only thing I'm not sure about is whether or not it can actually ever hurt your chances of getting your spouse back. I'm sure it can help. I just don't know whether there are times when it can hurt.