As a 'reader', I have read mountains of stuff on this. NDY - you have sent me some great links and videos, but I've also read on here and elsewhere. I just can't get when being in charge of my DB'ing begins to make me look like some kind of unlikeable hardass?
I've read that some MLC'ers look to see if it is safe before they try full reconnection, by pulling the rope in a different way. I don't see the best way of performing that trick. Sadly NDY, I do worry that I will miss a sign as W is incredibly stubborn and will be incredibly subtle.
Anyway, for now, I'm back to full NC (she called yesterday and I passed it to my D to answer and went to the bath with my S) and that's how I'll leave it for now.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
