I completely agree with Kaizen.

I have minimal expectations i will reconcile with my wife. Instead of dwelling on that and making myself miserable, im doing things to make me a happy person she would want to come back to (or would make someone else happy).


M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6
11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA
Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing
1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break
2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing
2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process