Thread #2 - Separating

[KevinIn]

Venting:

Went out with a coworker last night who is separating from her 8 year relationship and had a great time. Misery loves company.

Then this morning when i said hi to my kids on the phone, my wife took the phone and was being an angry b!tćh to me because i talked to the tenant in our condo without her input. She's mad that im doing things without her input.

For the most part, i restrained from saying what i really wanted to say, but i did slip up slightly and say "theres been a lot of decisions behind my back lately."

Now im in a bad mood. Does she not understand that if she wasnt leaving and that she tried working on our relationship that we would have talked through all communications with the tenant? That we would talk through everything? She created this mess, not me. Seems like anything i say or do is wrong in her eyes. Im starting to relate to the people on this forum who just give up and file themselves. Forget being amicable - shes a jerk who doesnt deserve my kindness. But, our kids do so i wont.

Now im just mad at her, which is not how i wanted spend my morning. Especially after having a fun night that had me feeling good. At least im not sad i guess.

I need to put angry wife out of my mind.