Also, people are not trying to dash your hopes. They're trying to help. They understand that it's difficult. They see us newcomer LBS going around, spinning, riding the rollercoaster, pursuing, enabling. They see it and want to help us.
They also know that we all have to make our own way through this thing. DB is no guarantee you can save your marriage, but it can certainly help save us as individuals. And by doing that, maybe we will indeed save our M?
We're rooting for you, Wish. Don't give up. It's not easy. There will be better days.
-- Me: 47 WW: 35 SS: 17 D: 5 T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016. OEA continues (with occasional breaks) BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18