Cheating is cheating regardless of its text or physical.
Originally Posted By: FMF
To me, texting and having a physical affair are 2 different things.
Im sorry if Im coming across as obtuse, but I dont understand what youre saying. What Im reading is that an EA (texting) is cheating, but not as bad as a PA, which is also cheating?
Look, my point is not to go back and make you feel guilty. My point is more that what happened was very serious, and from what youre saying that trust was never rebuilt. So, to me, it looks like a cancer that slowly grew into your relationship. By not going through steps to really heal from it, the resentment appears to have never gone away.
Because of that, I think it's crucial right now to back off. You need to give as much space as possible to let her do what she is going to do.
