I'm tired of having my hopes dashed on this forum. I need something to hold on to, even if there isn't really any hope. It will help me ride this out. This place is called "Divorce Busting", not "Give Up And Get Over Them". This place is supposed to be focused on saving your marriage, no matter how far gone it is.

M: 33, W: 30 @BD
M 7, T 10
BD: Early Dec
W left: Late Dec
W got stuff: Late Jan
W sent S papers: Mid Feb
OM cnfrmd: Late Feb

Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.