Originally Posted By: Jeep74
Or involved with OM in any form? Brutal as those questions sound, they aren't. But they are honest ones.

I believe she cares, and I believe she did something that she felt extremely guilty for, which is why she went so hateful on me all of a sudden, to try to transfer her guilt to me. Or she just decided she was dumping me for this guy, hadn't done anything ultra bad with him yet (other than EA), and went super hateful on me just so that she could deal with leaving me. If you are ultra angry, it's hard to be sad.


M: 33, W: 30 @BD
M 7, T 10
BD: Early Dec
W left: Late Dec
W got stuff: Late Jan
W sent S papers: Mid Feb
OM cnfrmd: Late Feb

Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.