Man, it's so hard right now to not contact my wife and ask her how the heck she goes for 10 years with daily contact and concern for me to so soon having nothing to do with me. I can't remember the last time she has initiated contact. And I only initiate contact once a week at the very most, probably like once every two weeks. OM must be completely filling my place in her psyche. I just can't understand how she can just stop caring about me like that, when she cared so much up until she all of a sudden went cold. Surely she is having to at least force herself to not care and not make contact.


M: 33, W: 30 @BD
M 7, T 10
BD: Early Dec
W left: Late Dec
W got stuff: Late Jan
W sent S papers: Mid Feb
OM cnfrmd: Late Feb

Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.