Thanks for the encouragement - yes what has been seen can't be unseen which is why I'm glad I never snooped with video/voice/photos... I'll only have to go by what my W tell's me and what I ask her when/if that time comes. That said, it's hard not to let the imagination run wild.... especially when I saw enough circumstantial stuff to lead the imagination there...

I do think that once you have been through this kind of devastation and prolong separation it really does curb one from doing it again. I'd imagine that where repeat occurrences do happen, it's probably in the R's that healed too quickly after the A and the significance of the betrayal was never really felt by both parties.


Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17