Thanks for reading and replying. You made a great point and one that I wholeheartedly agree with. Early on I fell apart like everyone else who comes here because I felt I had no choice and I needed myW/M. Once I realised I didn't need either it helped. From then I was here by MY choice. Hence any subsequent turmoil was due to ME choosing to be here.
Your words are filled with wisdom and understanding.Don't put yourself down. I remember when I first came here you and pink were a great support to many newcomers. I am glad you stay around.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
