Military here as well and had a similar situation happen while I was away for weeks of training.. she changed halfway through and is a totally different person now.. You can follow my thread if you want but there isn't much hope in mine right now.. I can only do as others have said and that is put my trust in GOD and be the best father and person I want/need to be. Detaching is key.. and a hard one at that, especially if you have kids. There are many days that I feel great at detaching.. and then there are days like today where I get an onset of what feels like a Panic Attack and can't stop thinking about her and the future and what could have been... I'm only 3 months in.. technically 1 month since she left the house so everything is still pretty fresh.
I'd love to see her come back like annab74 said.. but its like others have said, can the trust be rebuilt?
