This is all lose-lose so share your frustration, sadness, anger. The rules vary state to state, so can't really give advice, but ask your L (and divorced friends in your state). As Jeep74 says, this is just...sucktastic. Vent, vent, vent...
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
