I am sorry if I caused any confusion or misunderstanding. In rereading my posts, I can see where I wasnt being clear. My understanding is as follows:
1) You were texting with another W. 2) Your W found out 3) Your relationship healed over time, because, in your words "we seemed to work past it" and "we had sex numerous times".
Im curious about how your W actually responded to this EA? How did you rebuild trust in the relationship?
Originally Posted By: FMF
If she ends up having sex with other men I don't think I could take her back because I would never trust her and I would never be able to look at her the same. If she texted somebody that's different but once you make physical contact with another man and you're still legally married to me It's hard to take somebody back from that
So youre saying you are not as 'bad' as she is? I wonder what her opinion would be on the issue of trust. Did she give you any feedback during the healing from the EA?
Never said it wasn't bad. Cheating is cheating regardless of its text or physical. She told me she forgave me but yet brings it up all the time. So I don't think she truly forgave me for it, cause once you forgive you move past it and move forward. To me, texting and having a physical affair are 2 different things. They are both bad. I can forgive texting but if you physically had another mans thing in you, I would never be able to move past that.
