Thanks for checking in UR!! Yes I was doing quite a bit of that. Every little word or text. What did that expression mean, etc It actually become frustrating and exhausting We just get back from family vacation. W was there only half of the time and we had a good time. It was just the two of us skiing one day and we had a few beers. First time in a while that we were both just relaxed hanging out it seemed. She even said, "seems like we are on the same page for the first time in a while. It just took coming up to the mountains" We both laughed and agreed. It's been nice just living in the moment with zero expectations either way. I do find that I still have hope for my marriage though. So that tells me I shouldn't move on.
It's been great having Mach put me in my place. I need that.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
