Hi WillDo, it's up to you where you post of course. It would be great if you could post a little summary of your sitch here to help others without following the link.
I recall dropping in here in the early days - seeing the longevity of some situations and thinking Yikes!! That's not where I want to be! - But here I am three years on and there are some great people posting in this part of the forum.
So, welcome to you and good luck with your journey.
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus