So we just met to talk about her moving into the rental property we own. She started with her wall up and there was some anger. It eventually went away and we had a cordial conversation. She's sooo adament about leaving this marriage. We even had a little sweet talk about the kids. Overall, it was not a negative conversation. Then i left.
She 100% has issues that need resolved. She is not the same person i loved for 10 years. That person is lost. I wouldnt want to reconcile with this person. Unhappy. Slightly mean. Nothing i want.
Mine was the exact same way - cordial conversation became that way because I wasn't fighting her anymore and maybe to her it seemed I was validating the ending of the marriage. Who knows.
I can relate. You know, sometimes it isn't the people who change but their mask that falls off...
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
