The most confusing part of my days is no understanding of why W hasn't ended this. A year ago she couldn't wait to move out and end this marriage, yet 15 months later very little has been done. She says she wants to take it slowly, small steps towards closure... I have been more on the lines of let's just get it done and both be free....
She doesn't want to talk about anything, has given me sob stories about how she hasn't had this or that for a year.... I just look at her thinking this is what she wanted, free and independent....
My gut feeling is she left me for the OM and he wasn't actually in it to be with her. She made a comment that there have been misunderstandings all round, however that old pride thing will keep her going....
