Thanks for asking, Sandi. I'm mostly in a holding pattern right now. Still trying to better myself. Still getting over my wife and working on detaching. Watching her, seeing what she's doing. Being lovingly distant. Trying to slowly work my way back into her life. I suspect that things with OM will fizzle out over the next few months, and I want to be there to slowly and carefully woo her back, when it does. Or who knows? Maybe I won't care at some point before then, and she'll be begging me to take her back.


M: 33, W: 30 @BD
M 7, T 10
BD: Early Dec
W left: Late Dec
W got stuff: Late Jan
W sent S papers: Mid Feb
OM cnfrmd: Late Feb

Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.