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There is nothing in the decree around other people around our kids on either side.


I see. There is a specific reason I had it put in ours. Especially there is to be no overnights with the children there. Of course that changes upon marriage.

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And I wouldn't want to restrict things on either side. I more wanted to get it out, admit it to myself, and see how others have dealt with the new person.


Its not a restriction on any level. Its more a protection thing. Kids shouldn't be thrown in the middle of it all.

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But something still seems amiss with the them.


Interesting. And if I were in your shoes, concerning.


There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.