I'm posting by my X is getting serious with someone, a guy that I think just left his wife for her, and I have to admit I'm affected. I want to believe it is all because he's now around my 4 kids, but it is a little more. My IC says there's no way you have a 20 year marriage end without being affected and not to beat myself up over it.
I knew it would happen eventually, and I don't want to go back. It's just a bridge I guess I have to cross.
